Divorce almost destroyed me. I’m not gonna sugarcoat it. When my ex-wife left, I fell apart. There were nights I couldn’t sleep. Days I couldn’t function. Moments where I genuinely didn’t know how I was going to survive this. But here’s what I want you to know if...
I cursed at God, like full-on f you, sobbing in my back office on a random Tuesday afternoon, and the wild part is he loved me anyway, and I hadn’t talked to him in almost 15 years, no church, no prayer, nothing, and the first thing I said wasn’t “save me,” it was...
Parenting with a Ghost: When Shared Parenting Isn’t Really Shared When the judge signed off on my shared parenting plan, I thought I’d finally made it. I imagined some awkward-but-functional version of teamwork—two divorced adults passing the baton and collaborating...
A testimony of unconditional love, rock bottom, and coming home I want to start with a question that might be haunting you: How far is too far? How far can you run from God before it’s too late? How long can you stay away? How angry can you get? How deep in sin?...
Why Silicon Valley’s spiritual awakening might be exactly what the church needs The Irony of Progress Sam Altman, CEO of OpenAI—the company behind ChatGPT and arguably the most influential AI company on earth—said something in a podcast last year that I...
Hey, nerds, it’s Derek—40-year-old single dad, Click Consultants wrangler, and Tanner’s chief chaos coordinator. Driving to counseling the other day, I got hit hard by that voice in my head whispering, “You’re not good enough.” You know the one—sneaky,...
